GET YOUR LIFE BACK ON TRACK FAST – FOR HIGH-ACHIEVING MEN FEELING MISERABLE AND UNFULFILLED
I’m here for the man who’s wondering why his life feels so empty when, on the surface, he appears to have it all – a supportive wife, loving family, fabulous friends and a successful business or career – yet he’s feeling utterly miserable.
If that’s you, then I know you’ve been trying hard to get out of the funk by yourself – because that’s what you do.
You want to wake up in the morning feeling like there’s a reason to get up, for your family to enjoy being around you again, and to stop the shit in your head that’s creating all the misery in your life.
But the reality is that you’re becoming increasingly worried about how this situation will end.
Hi, I’m Dany Griffiths. I specialise in coaching successful high-achieving men who are successful in work but struggling personally.
Many of my clients are grappling with burnout, strained relationships, or finding it tough to carve out quality time with their families, or for themselves.
Does any of that sound familiar? Do you feel like you’re living a double life—where your outward success masks a ton of shit going on inside? That’s a story I’ve seen unfold too many times.
I guide my clients through these tough times, helping them cut through any bullshit they’re telling themselves about their challenges and what’s holding them back.
Whether you’re a seasoned business owner questioning life’s purpose or a rising professional grappling with a significant challenge, I get it. You’re doing well on the ladder of success, yet something feels off. Despite your accomplishments, there’s a sense of unease nagging at the back of your mind. And trust me, you’re not alone.
Are you thriving in life, or does every day feel like a struggle?
Whether you’re in the depths of despair or riding high on success, you might already know that you need help to reach the next stage in your life journey – be that work or personal. The kind of support you require depends on your position on the Life Fulfilment Scale.
Our quick quiz will help you pinpoint your current zone—be it the Thrive Zone where life is fabulous, the Danger Zone where life feels like hell, or somewhere in between. Once you know where you stand, we’ll guide you with the initial steps you can take to move forward and elevate your life to the next level. Let’s begin your journey to a more fulfilled life.
Reclaim What Matters by Getting Your Life Shit Sorted
Maybe you’ve already hit burnout, or your wife is telling you there’s not much more she can take – possibly you’ve already blown up your life in some way.
You say you’re fine while making it bloody obvious you’re not because you flit between being silent and withdrawn and grumpy and argumentative instead of the fun and loving man you used to be.
You’re short with your colleagues, have very little patience for your kids and are mean to your wife, all of which you hate yourself for, longing to change but at the same time not seeking help because you REALLY DON’T WANT THERAPY.
Talking about your feelings and unpicking your whole life is not for you.
My client Dave felt the same until he hit rock bottom, although he was still adamant he didn’t want therapy. When I asked why he decided that working with me was the right choice, he replied that I had such certainty I could help him that he felt relief just from the initial free consultation.
That told him it was a no-brainer decision to book on to my Life-Shit Sorted Programme.
16 weeks later he had a fresh excitement about his business, was laughing with his kids more, and going on regular date nights with his wife. His family, friends, and colleagues all shared how great it was to see him relaxed and enjoying life again (there was even an improvement in his golf game).
You know it’s time to get help so that you can feel happy again, but you’re not up for weeks and months of talking about your stuff or dredging up the past. You want quick results, practical solutions and actionable steps so that you can get your life back on track – all while having some fun along the way.
You don’t want – or need – therapy. You just want to get back to enjoying life again and feeling as good on the inside as your life looks on the outside.
That’s exactly what happens in my Life Shit Sorted 1:1 VIP programme, and I guarantee you’ll feel completely different about your life’s direction right from our very first session. You’ll see a clear path forward, alive with possibilities, and feel empowered to take control of your journey.
Common Struggles of High-Achieving Men:
Let’s cut to the chase and talk about the challenges that successful men like you grapple with daily:
Midlife Reflection: Ever found yourself pondering life’s purpose, questioning if there’s more to it despite your achievements?
Relationship Strain: Your professional life might be flourishing, but your personal relationships are taking a hit.
Career Burnout: Remember when your job was your passion? Now, it feels more like a burden.
Identity Crisis: Feel like you’re so busy pleasing everyone else, you’ve lost sight of who you are and what you want.
Fear of Failure: The pressure to maintain your success is crushing. It’s like walking a tightrope, fearing the fall.
Mistakes you might unknowingly be making that are worsening your situation.
Overlooking the Issue: It’s easy to brush it aside, hoping it’ll resolve itself. But deep down, you know it won’t.
Coping Mechanisms: Whether it’s diving into work or seeking distractions, temporary relief often masks the real problem.
Isolation: Building walls to shut out the world, fearing vulnerability may be perceived as weakness.
Seeking the wrong type of Quick Fix: Jumping into risky ventures or drastic changes, hoping they’ll fill the void. But spoiler alert: they won’t.
A Unique Approach for Men Who Prefer Action Over Talk
Now, I understand. Traditional therapy might not be your cup of tea. But that’s where I come in—a Therapeutic Life Coach with an approach tailored for men like you:
Practical Strategies: Let’s cut through the noise and focus on actionable steps that will propel you forward.
Confidential Coaching: This is our safe haven—a judgement-free zone where you can explore your challenges openly.
Personalised Plans: No one-size-fits-all solutions here. Your journey is unique, and so are the strategies we’ll implement.
Holistic View: We’re not just fixing one area of your life—we’re transforming them all for a truly fulfilling existence.
Why Getting Help Is So Crucial
Seeking help isn’t an admission of defeat—it’s a declaration of strength. Here’s why it’s vital:
Gain Clarity: Peel back the layers and uncover what’s truly holding you back.
Re-Learn Resilience: Instead of continually showing up strong and pushing on through, learn how to flow with the stress, anxiety, and overwhelm.
Improve Relationships: Reconnect with loved ones on a deeper level and forge stronger bonds.
Reignite Passion: Rediscover your purpose and infuse it into every facet of your life.
Prevent Downfall: Don’t wait for catastrophe to strike—nip it in the bud now.
Why Men Love to Work with Me
Men love working with me because I deliver results FAST with quick, practical solutions and easy, actionable steps—not years of therapy. From session one, we focus on both immediate progress and long-term goals, allowing my clients to achieve quick wins right away.
They also learn sustainable strategies that ensure ongoing transformation long after our work together is complete. Every client has described working with me as LIFE CHANGING.
Find out more about me HERE
Real-Life Success Story: From Danger Zone to Living Zone
At the end of August 2023, I started working with my first male client. He kind of just dropped in my lap (not literally). I grabbed the opportunity as I’d wanted to teach men my unique Feel Right Emotional Empowerment™ approach ever since it had helped my husband recover from severe Burnout in 2021.
This client was in the Danger Zone of my Life Fulfillment Scale: Overwhelmed and unable to cope.
The feedback after each session from this client blew my mind. This is one of my favourites…
“I am doing so great, I really want you to know the progress I’m making is phenomenal. How I feel now is worlds apart from how I was feeling in our first session. The red mist isn’t rising like it used to, I’m enjoying myself again, colleagues say I come in happier after my Dany sessions, and I’m even starting to understand how my loneliness is wanting to help me.”
In just 16 weeks, his mental health score had shifted from -7 to +6. Now he’s in the ‘Living Zone’, he’s discovered that his future can be whatever he wants it to be, and not over at 50, which he was really starting to feel when we began working together.
We now catch up monthly so that he can focus on Thriving. In his words “I have a trainer for my physical health, it makes sense to do the same for my mental health and for my life in general.”.
